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The ultimate guide for ladies to truly understand men and gain insight into their thoughts, emotions, and actions. Improve your relationships and bring harmony into your life.

Understanding a man is a tough task. It is not easy to get what they are thinking, and even if you do, it is not always easy to understand why they do the things they do. This article will provide some tips on how to communicate with men in different situations.
As a woman, you are always getting advice from your lady friends, your mother, etc, on what men “really” want and how to attract a man and keep him close to you. Unfortunately, as well-intentioned as these women are, they probably don’t have a much better understanding of the man you have than yourself!

What Is It About Men That Makes Them So Difficult to Understand?

Some of the reasons why most women find it difficult to understand men.

• Because men are different from women! And as long as you continue trying to relate to men in the same way you relate to other women, you will never understand them.
• Men find it difficult to communicate or express their feelings, or emotions.
  Men need space: they need time alone to think. When you try to force him to talk when he doesn’t want, he feels trapped and suffocated by your constant questioning and probing for answers about what’s going on inside his head. Instead of trying to know what is in his head, just let him be.
• Men do not always express love to a lady the same way ladies do. For example, if I ask a lady what type of hairstyle is that?, to me, I am saying ‘I love that hairstyle. So, until you truly understand your man and how he expresses his love, you will always keep saying ‘he is not romantic’ or ‘Some men are not romantic.’ Every man is romantic to the Highers level

The Male Brain vs. The Female Brain- What’s the Difference?

Men and women have different brain structures. Men have a tendency to be more aggressive, while women are more empathetic. Men are better at detecting changes in their environment, while women have the ability to multitask and recall memories.
The other side is that men express their feelings and thoughts very differently from women. A man may be thrilled but may not show it the way a woman will. Not only that, but it is easy for a woman to get caught in the trap of overanalyzing every little thing in a relationship. For instance, if a man suddenly stopped talking, a woman might spend the whole day trying to figure out what she did wrong to make him stop talking to her, when in fact the man is just not in the mood to talk.

How to Communicate with a Man and Not Make Him Run Away!

Communication is key in any relationship, but when it comes to communicating with men, it’s especially important to keep things positive. If you communicate in a way that makes him feel attacked or like he’s being judged, he’ll be more likely to run away from you. However, if you can find ways of communicating that make him feel heard and understood, you’ll have a much better chance of keeping him around.
The following tips can help you communicate well with your man:
1. Be a good listener
2. Be clear about what you’re saying.
3. Don’t ask too many questions at the same time. Asking a man multiple questions at once irritates him. Instead of asking many questions at a time, wait for him to finish answering the first one before moving on to another; this will help him feel more comfortable with answering you.
4. Be mindful of your tone of voice and body language

Conclusion:

So why do so many women have trouble understanding men? Why do some women talk like this? “I don’t why he is always not happy” or “I don’t know what he wants from me again”?
Part of the problem is that most men themselves don’t really know what they want, although they won’t admit it. So don’t expect them to tell you what they want.
Men also need compassion, understanding, love, commitment, and someone who will listen to them when they need it.
Men always want to keep their problems to themselves and think through them. It does not mean that your man doesn’t want to discuss the problem or issues with you, it just means that he would rather process the situation before saying anything. Also, a man will always want to come up with something concrete to say or a specific solution to a problem, rather than just discussing various different options with you.

understanding a man is essential for having a good relationship with them. By understanding their needs and their thoughts, you can have a better love life and a good relationship. Use the tips in this guide to get started on your journey to understanding men.

By: Stephen Adzasu